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Two Cents Tuesday

Edit, People, Edit

It’s Two Cents Tuesday…

Editing has gotten a bad rap.

As a writer, and someone interested in the written word as a fulfilling means of communication, one may think it strange I believe in the power of editing.  The ability to be precise and concise in ones writing is the number one rule in many a wordsmiths handbook….even the prolific Stephen King touts the unspoken golden rule – brevity.  

Our society is a full pendulum swing away from editing itself…between Facebook, Twitter and cell phones, we let it all ‘hang out’.  We say anything we please – without fear, without care.  And yes, there is something bold in that…powerful….but also very short-sighted, and for lack of a better word, stupid.

I do look up to people who speak their mind – who are honest and forthright – who say what they think and feel.  It is very brave.  When spoken eloquently, the truth or opinion of truth, can change people…much as Martin Luther King Jr. did when he spoke his ‘dream’ to the world.

And then there is someone like Mark Twain, who had his autobiography published (in volumes, no less) 100 years after his death.  Twain, one of the most famous authors of our time, had an ability to be both biting and sentimental when he spoke his beliefs.  Apparently he left tons of material behind, in a memoir type fashion, that was to be compiled and published a century after his death….some say to protect those he wrote about (as he obviously didn’t want to edit his material) and others say it was a grand PR move.  Whatever the reason, Mr. Twain did not mince nor edit his meaty words.

So why do I believe in editing so strongly?  Because it is often in our best interest.  We do it on a daily basis whether we realize it or not.  We edit what we say to our boss (how many times have we’ve bitten our tongue?), what we say to our loved ones, or even strangers.  We all know saying what you really feel is not always best at the moment you’re feeling it – although the reverse argument has its validity.  It’s more of a “think” before you speak, before you post/tweet/text, philosophy I believe in.  And what could it hurt?  Does a re-read of an email or report or letter ever cause any harm?  No…but the public publishing can.  As the expression goes, some things are better left unsaid.

Our forefathers edited the Declaration of Independence before they signed it, didn’t they?  The laws of our society are such that although we’ve penned our right to free speech, we should also understand that with that freedom comes responsibility…to each other.  Speaking out, demonstrating, blogging are great venues of expression and sharing – but they should be tempered with humility and compassion…for others viewpoints and belief systems.  So many people abuse the right of free speech as a means to promote their own personal agendas which creates an unhealthy society, mired in the mentality of “me”. 

Our modern social media environment has allowed us to become more global than we ever imagined – and as technology continues to expand and advance, so too will each of our reaches.  What you put out in the world – in print or video – will become part of your history, your story to tell.  Say what you feel, what you think, what you believe…but always keep one thing in mind…learn to edit.

Edit.  It begins with E…and I love E. – BB

(That was probably more like my 31 Cents worth…perhaps I need to take my own advice and edit.)

TBIF (Thank Buddha It's Friday)

Prince Pics

It’s Friday friends…TBIF. 

Pics of Prince Harry have surfaced.  And he’s naked.  In Vegas.  Need I say more?

There’s a swell of hoopla surrounding this naturally – people seem to enjoy a certain level of scandal.  As long as it’s not about them.

We love to make our judgments about the activities of others – as if our opinion should be gospel.  But it’s not.  We are all the same – and we all make mistakes.

Yes – do I think that Harry didn’t show the best judgment in his partying – especially these days with cell phones, YouTube and Twitter as regular party companions?  It’s not an easy world to be private anymore.  We have to pick and choose our moments when we can throw caution to the wind…or our clothes, for that matter.

He’s a royal.  He comes from a certain blood lineage.  This is true.  But he’s also a person – just like every single one of us.  Young and impetuous.  

The spotlight of scrutiny will be Prince Harry’s biggest hangover right now.  Let this be a reminder that privacy is king.

 

Two Cents Tuesday

Two Cents Tuesday

Buddha Balboa is starting Two Cents Tuesday– a day I/we get to throw our 2 cents into the fountain. 

We all have something to say.  Our two cents.

I think it is the fundamental need of people – to be HEARD.  Listened to, yes, but moreso heard.  How else can you explain the explosion of blogging, Twitter, Facebook, reality television and YouTube?

So today I have some “cents” to spend…

First impressions are everything.  Nothing else needs to be said here.  Make a good one.

You either exude a positive or a negative energy about you…make that choice.  How do you want to be known?

Awesome quote – “Live as if you were to die tomorrow; learn as if you were to live forever.” – Gandhi.  Most of us have heard the first part – to live each day to it’s fullest, as if it’s your last….BUT, learn as if you were to live forever?  How cool is that?  That message – to keep learning….and my belief, is that as long as you live, if you are open to it, you WILL keep on learning…evolving.  Life is a learning experience.  We don’t reach some invisible finish line where we should stop absorbing, questioning, wondering.  Being curious is being alive.  Learn everything – learn as if you were to live forever.  I love it.

That’s three cents actually.  Inflation.  And I have a lot to say.

Send me your 2 cents worth – what’s on your mind? – BB